It is incredibly difficult to understand a person's desires and actions, and the stumbling block here is not at all in reticence or secret intentions, not even in self-interest. A man does not always manage to understand himself during his life. Then why does he have claims to you? To understand what you really want and not to turn off the path - a task, the solution of which is beyond the power of absolutely everyone. You want to hide under the wing to follow, to be a muse and support.
Now you have to tackle dozens of things at once to get things done. Only as a result, everything turns out to be nothing. If a thing is finished thoroughly, all the strength and thoughts now belong to another... and their solution is like a lump, like seeds - one by one, quickly and easily, as if by themselves.
Not too long ago, I realized what the catch is and why one endeavor after another collapses. By prioritizing the main task, it seems to me that I have reached the straight line where the others will "click" with pleasure.