Today, as I was going through my medical board, I learned something that hit me...morally speaking. It's what happens when people leave this world, leaving us forever. You seemed to know these people...but that's your opinion. By observing from the outside the reactions and behavior of others, you unwittingly put together in your head an assessment of objectivity if your attitude is similar to what you see from others.
Only the sad thing happens when this relationship is no longer seen by the object. When the "right" words won't do any good, a strained smile won't give a chance... The object turns out to be different for people, and your assessment of objectivity cracks at the seams.
How painful it is to realize that such stories are everywhere... How hard it is to look at these people from another life, from above.... with no possibility to explain oneself and to fix something.
You have to live your life in such a way that nothing will change after you're gone...absolutely! It's like getting married when it won't change anything at all.