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Every day we counsel dozens of mistakes while remaining tolerant of... each other and the resulting relationships formed. Are these mistakes, or are they stages in the formation, development, and perhaps inevitable fading of your communications?

And here you are again silent about your dissatisfaction in bed with him, looking into his eyes with your puppy dog look. He is again silent about his dissatisfaction with your +2 pounds. Smoothing out the "rough edges" develops a kind of inertia in the relationship where basic things are overlooked. And yes, he really doesn't see the difference in your hair color, and you couldn't even think about his club making the playoffs.

Forgetting about the downside, we often talk about the downside, about what we have not received and what we have not said. We see, or rather remember only the negative... He doesn't want to, he doesn't do, he doesn't speak and doesn't show initiative. And yes, we easily express such claims out loud, even in direct text. When the time is right, everything you can remember from the last few years goes into action. Even his bad jokes are in your arsenal... you rascal!

I am again, as it may seem, attacking the weaker half of humanity, but no... I just do not meet such a volume of claims from the strong... to the weak. Girls are excellent manipulators, skillfully wielding all the tools given to them by nature to get what they want. Each has its own trump card and even the one who is at the zero stage of mastering the art, natively applies the tool of threat, putting before the choice.

And yet about the downside. Now also simply and without reason tell him about the pleasant things that come from him: a sleepy face that turns up next to you early in the morning when you wake up for work; his warm embrace in the evening in front of the TV; the amazing coffee that he manages to brew in a turbo for you; a greased from squeaks chair; bought surge protector or cleared from snow parking lot for your car at home. Anything!!! It can go on like this endlessly...yes, endlessly if you love it! These little things and pleasantries you have from him are hundreds...there are definitely more of them than recriminations and crankiness. He's just being there for you, which makes you feel good already...tell him that! And you know, this is, in my opinion, the easiest and most honest tool for getting feedback. No guy will not be able to ignore such "donations" in his direction indefinitely and will surely respond with his own, even if naive, but this is only in the beginning... And, as many people know, the main thing is to start! ??