It is not only moods, seasons, events and people that change. The world around us changes every second. We spend a lot of effort to get to the truth, and after a while, a decision once made, found through thorns, suddenly becomes not an absolute in our understanding of the world and man.
Retardation of relationships, which seemed to me to be a base, today #HeSelf is accepted as something elementary, without “doping” and unnecessary spending. The solipsism of reasoning about the “correctness” of formation and relationships comes into greater question when new ones appear in your head: why, why, what is the problem??? And here, perhaps, I find the answer too. All the blame, reason, value, etc. etc. etc. - time!
Think back to when you were 16... where were you in a hurry? How easy rejection was for you, and procrastination was not a made up word, but an everyday story... Today you're 30! You know that... “was.” Today you're thinking about “will be.” Today you're not ready to compromise, you want certainty and you're drowning in your values and beliefs.
Tomorrow. Yeah, yeah... This decade has flown by...like a day. Today you're 40! Do you doubt it?! No! You see no reason not to try! Your 25 attempts to achieve just one goal are obvious and “normal”, in contrast to the self-doubt and words at 30. And that's not me talking about diminished self worth. I'm talking about the variability and possibility of everything.
Today the weather has changed from +25 °C to +8 °C. Tomorrow, your ambition and categorization will lose value, because it is nothing but the rigidity of your views. Allow it. Accept it. Try it. Take your time... yes, yes, yes, today everything is very, very fast. But we're talking about you! You choose what's best for you, which is no rush at all.
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