The question of perception, mistakes, attitude to time, ideal - all topics that I go over in my head time after time, trying to find the optimal, reference solution/path that carries the minimum cost with the maximum result in a positive way.
Much of what is said, done, planned and desired can have a bright tinge of greed, selfishness and narcissism. But this is only outwardly, on the outside, superficially. ?? Love is a sincere interest in the development of the object of love. /Э. Fromm/ Yes, yes, I'll repeat the aphorism, sorry. But I'll add my own! The desire to give a ready-made solution, the best, optimal, favorable. Leaving the choice of the path, its bumps, hardships and turns. All the bumps, blows, bloody hands and tears. Here - take it!
Are you reading/seeing the victim again! That's what the above is about. ? One must look deeper, be able to see! This is a natural way for me, a normal practice of responsibility. I give what I know myself! I only want the best for those around me! The best not at random - immediately and quickly, but over time - tested and for sure. About time...my favorite author:
He who is impatient in decisions and actions is in a hurry to fail.
Ф. La Rochefoucauld
Gathering in myself specifics in relation to certain views, positions and beliefs, I agree with a number of principles to which I have allocated a special place within myself. The principles of healthy, strong and, I am convinced, promising relationships:
- Physical compatibility
- Attitude towards money (spending and saving)
- Children's perceptions
- Attitude towards everyday moments
- Alignment of values and life goals.
Four, in my opinion, fundamental principles for daring to be able and willing to say - "I am truly happy". Each one individually? As I see it? Next....
P.S. "How a car becomes new after 12 years. I know! Take it!"