Life is not a formula

Life is not math. I am convinced of this axeom again and again, but I persist in trying to find the formula that would explain the rules of life. "It doesn't work that way" - a phrase I once uttered often still holds true today. It doesn't work that way when the sum of the material units being added is equal to their total weight in material terms. And it is very terrible if this is exactly what happens to you.

Something inexplicable happens inside you just from a word, a touch, a smile and a well-timed joke. Damn pleasant excitement inside of you is replaced by remorse with the wording "what am I"... This is the excitement of competition that needs to take place in a relationship between two people. Categorically not according to the formula 1+1+1=3. Isklbchgpo formula x+y+z=k, where each of the unknowns is completely random and hits the target as accurately as possible, but at the same time neither "x", nor "y", nor "z" are parts of "k" .... is not close at all. Your "k" will be unique... always!

The inverse strictness of such formulas in sadness, where x+y+z= a number. Something concrete that has a price, value, weight, or other not emotional but physical/material characteristic. Even the same awful zero, not emotional or material... but damn near empty and soulless, leaving no trace on paper, in memory, or in the heart.

Let it be in your life so that "no why" and "no why", but only as it is only "just because I want it that way"... Let your happiness consist of unknowns, because only in this way you will not waste your time searching for those very specific ingredients of happiness, but will start living, enjoying everything that happens to you. Life consists of moments that end very quickly and even your pain is about to become a quantum of your past, so do not give it the importance of something global. Let everything that gives you negativity (subjectively) remain a quantum in your life, and from the others you will gather your subjective but incredibly beautiful happiness!

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