Do you think there's a time for everything? I've probably come back to the topic of rules, numbers and standards hundreds of times over and over again. If there are any, they should be the same for everyone. Otherwise, it is only your choice and you are responsible for everything - your choice.
Apple tree, # lilac and cherry tree - the blossoms of these trees are planned and subject to rules. Do you want your life to be subject to rules? I doubt it, for deep down you are considering measuring, postponing, revising the rules you have made up for yourself. Alas... but they are worthless, and so is your word, if you so easily and simply change your judgments for something else.
More than once I have found that the firmness of one's principles must be unbreakable to the last. Only the strongest counterargument can shake a conviction. But more often in life, fear takes over, to which many people submit their decisions in the end.
There's only one rule - desire. The strongest one is to live! The second one is to live happily! Happiness to you!