And how dependent are we really on others? Who are these others? Who are we looking for? The rules of the game and is it a game at all?
Those whom we pursue, hold on to, compromise and, sometimes, even overstep ourselves?! So that after a couple of years, a couple of three years, having parted, to say - "how cool it is to be free". Someone demands... yes, yes, openly and straightforwardly requires special treatment. So to speak, setting a certain bar of "accessibility". And so, having jumped, having spent, having reached.... we get the cherished thing.
Sorry, it's like a new purchase - we get high for the first 30 minutes, don't let go for a few more hours, think about it for a few more days, and then a couple months later - "hmm, just like everyone else. There's better." No! A person is not a thing and this is not a direct comparison. It's an attempt to broadcast an emotion.
Every man is a king and a god, a queen and a princess. And the real thing will not slip out so that you have to hold on to it. It will not force you to achieve and even more so to transcend yourself in the name of some "proof". The present will be there .... always! Absolutely always! Without options and conditions! Once very long ago someone said such a phrase: "so what... I love! What will forbid me to love, if I love my love quietly on the sidelines? Neither distance nor time." It was about the fact that you can love this feeling, not even a person. Let it be crude, but man is only the source of this feeling. As such, the need for this person is not necessary at all.
In addition, listen to the song "i love to be loved by you". In general, having chosen a photo to the post, I wanted to say something completely different. About narrow-mindedness and primitiveness of some people... Which actually causes fear and apprehension for the future... So this will be a topic for a future post.
And let the litmus test for you from now on be these very words: must(a), prove, achieve, keep. Run!