Who's to blame for the relationship

Green or light green, right or guilty – so many opinions and conversations on the topics of tastes and preferences. Here, suddenly, having encountered the phrase “in relationships, both are guilty”, which is usually considered an axiom, I suddenly doubted and came up with my own theory. Hmm… but before I took the statement for the “ultimate truth”. No! In relationships, one person is guilty, or no one is guilty!
It's hard to explain my thoughts in one short post, but I'll try.

Let's take the scales for convenience, where, as in relationships, there are always two bowls, or two sides. One of them is to blame. For what? For not being able to find the right path, way or method to get emotion, energy, response from the side to which he has an attraction, even if it's a gram. There! One bowl of the scale has already tipped lower. If this gram is missing, then the bowls are on the same level and have neither pluses nor minuses - they are indifferent... which means no one is to blame.

Even a gram has a huge weight in the fact that something is born. Only both can make this something what they want. Any charge flying to you from the side does not remain unanswered. Start yourself, if this gram appeared in you!

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