Role selection and the value of emotions

Open. You know, it is impossible to offend a person. The whole point is that he chooses for himself the necessary (favorable) role in the moment. And you know, it's also very easy to open yourself to a person, if your feelings are worthless, if they are not. Like an empty jewelry box. Be generous to snow in Murmansk, to traffic jams in Moscow and to sand in Africa. If it doesn't touch you, if it doesn't take away... it's all very easy. And yes, the same emotions and feelings also have different values.

Is it in vain that we do not notice, as it seems to others, the obvious? Except that the real is not hidden, does not evaporate in an instant, and therefore is truly valued. Even a stone heated by the sun does not cool down all at once.

It's scary to be used (comfortable, not stressed) and get stabbed in the back, in a moment of changing moods, changing winds and time zones. It hurts.

And after all, it is inherent in humans to habituate, adopt and imitate. We even speak other people's words (but when you forgive, you listen to them). We lose ourselves as a unit, as a person. And no, it's not horrible at all - it's normal! It's an amazing journey, when you plunge fully and completely to the depths - right into the person, marveling at every cell. I recommend it!?

The consequence can be love. And the consequence can be anything. A perverted understanding of care, which elevates any movement and step towards it to the ranks of a feat. When that person's decisions, actions, judgments and arguments become axioms. Your once healthy critical thinking is perceived with aggression and ridicule. Pay attention! ?

You've probably experienced it when a splinter fracture with dislocation has to be repaired with an Ilizarov apparatus. Where every movement is a hell of a pain. Do you remember that? Taking responsibility for your words, through similar pain, transcending reason, doesn't give you a chance to fold. You can do anything if you really want to. Say it! ?

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