Understanding other people's decisions is an art

I want to be as objective as possible. To understand people's decisions and actions... because one way or another, this is a response to the irritant - not me. The irritant here, of course, is not understood in a negative light.

However, there are times and people (more often, of course, ladies) when it is simply impossible to understand the decisions made by a person. Only the great and mighty Russian language is able to define what happens in the minds and hearts of such people. "I want not to want, though I want to want" - somehow like that.

And yes, I'm going back to past posts where I've already brought this up, although it was probably extremely veiled there, but now and now I can say it a little more clearly. I cannot fully accept, as I cannot fully understand those who refuse comfort, pleasure and warmth now... exactly when it is all in front of him on a "plate". Why?

You are really pleasant, interesting and very good with the person. Usually the kind I call "mine"... but you find a reason, suck some argument out of your finger and... - no, I'd better say stop. Why?

People don't see tomorrow...what's the point. Few people understand and know themselves. Today, many things change at times... To predict or make plans without knowing the path ahead is the venture of optimists. Try today to take steps, to be silent, to look, to sit, to lie, to run, to chat, to shout, to be angry, to smile, to eat, to drink, to sleep.... all this with pleasure... just so that tomorrow you will not look for mistakes in yesterday.

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