You are the choice of your life, not the lives of others

Life or circumstances?! What will you choose? And just today I heard a damn important position from a man whose 360 scientific papers have been published. Yes! Why do we only have two positions when it comes to choice? A separate philosophy in the necessity of choice... This I remember. I've been there. I know.

Making a choice. And why make a choice not in your favor? Ok - in favor of people who are dear and infinitely important to you. But! If these people are informed about your values, views, decisions and choices? Are you sure that in a hypothetical situation in the future they would act the same way? I very much doubt it.

Your interests, your life, your values... Everything you are as a person and a human being has the absolute right to be accepted or rejected. In the end, your life is no less than the life of the people you care about, because maybe some part of their life is you!

Don't decide for others and let others make their own decision, make a choice, try. Of course, we are capable of making mistakes, and this only strengthens a person's position and views. After all, without trying, you will not know how it is #HeSelf and #ThroughYourself. Here, the price of your determination, certainty, and understanding of yourself is less important than the error and attempts of another, ignorant person.

The case when your determination and awareness gives a constant as a unit (something concrete) does not cancel out the fact that the other's opinion, desire, value, view will be something changing clearly. It is wonderful when the person next to you has a position, a view, a belief, an interest, an experience, etc. - something in which he is sincerely convinced. It's great if he or she can articulate it with reasons, arguments, facts and personal emotional triggers.

By sharing, respecting, partly even accepting some arguments, you become something more than 1+1... This is the synergy of your relationship, which is the source of the emergence of new life.

I just think so...

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