Is it worth it to understand others

And if beauty is in the eye of the beholder, then feelings are in the soul of the emoter. Every now and then, returning to my post about perception, I unwittingly ground myself, becoming more sober in the moment.

If we speak about the difference of sexes as if it were obvious - akin to "2+2=4", then everything is very different, very different, colossally different in a separate gender component! Having the same, conditionally equal, physiological parameters, we use our natural gifts in absolutely unique ways. As, say, having the brain of a creative marketer, people go into the dark business, becoming swindlers.

And yet about the difference between the sexes, because there are many common factors, habits and social norms intertwined. It's amazing how basic and unconditional things seem to her, suddenly they are perceived as "moods" or "occasions". The obligation to look excellent...no less. It's hardwired into you girls.

Your perception of "normal" is exactly the opposite of what it is. And that goes for everything. Yes! Everything! This is not a place for rose-colored glasses, but rather for talking.

You can agree, allow, or ignore. Choose an option. If you can't understand the charm and flavor of an event, you are probably taking someone else's place. Except that if you can, it is "on yourself" through your perception of the world and values.

Is it worth endlessly trying and convincing yourself that you need to understand the other person? Is it worth it to look for ways, to go over and over, to compromise? I don't think so! It is only worth it to respect the opinion of the person dear to you and keep in mind his tastes and views, not allowing unpleasant experiences and moods for him.

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