To stay to shine.... From the earliest years, fate throws us one or another “adventure”. Something ends in a bruise, and something ends in psychological trauma for the rest of our lives. The older we get, the easier it is to survive more and more difficult trials, finding even in the sad outcome of some philosophical understanding.
The big mystery is where very young children get the strength not to break down, continuing to radiate goodness and spontaneity. While an adult and established person in life is ready to lay hands on themselves from a situation that may not directly affect them.
Isn't character inherited and not formed during life? On the other hand, a nine-year-old child has not even had a life... how? And he can accept the situation and move on without remembering what happened.
And in general, is it so good to be strong? Is it important not to show emotions from the experience? It's important to be honest...well at least to yourself. Shine!