Steering together: the power of mutual understanding

If #the sun is shining, then someone needs it... It is needed... It is necessary to find a place, as I said above. And the last post closely intersects, or even to say, this thought will serve as a kind of continuation of the last one...

If you haven't seen "House of Gucci", I highly recommend it! Perhaps the only film that I gave 10 points. From afar... as always, I started my thought. But to the point. In life... (erased a few lines of a bad analogy)... it often happens that two people hold the steering wheel, aka is at the head of the relationship, makes decisions - in general, from above! The other is under... Whether it's a henpecked husband or someone else. "Ships" often work on such a mechanism, because both cannot sit at the helm. This is logical in principle. Only gender breaks through and makes its way to the surface at the slightest relaxation and / or opportunity. He wants to be strong, she - weak.

Those opposites that seemed to stretch out suddenly do not find mutual understanding... Why then were they attracted? This "perpetual motion machine" of pulling the "steering wheel" towards oneself lasts for years until the desire and interest completely disappear, and absolute indifference appears. Maybe when only laziness to pick up a pen separates you from signing the divorce application.

But is there really such a person who consciously wants to be “under”? It’s basic – power! Maslow’s pyramid… isn’t it? There is no such person! That’s why there is a conflict of interests, that’s why there is a lie, betrayal… Life is not an hourglass that can be turned over at any moment. And a ship without a pilot will quickly fall/sink… even at the moment of handing over the helm.

If your place is to steer, then let there be someone nearby who is well-versed in maps and probably knows the exact time and place for the correct turn of your ship! It is this mechanism that becomes stronger from year to year, uniting into a monolith - the shortest road, the smoothest and safest. Just hold the steering wheel, and he (she) will show you the way!

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