Very soon you will find the answer to any of your questions. It is inexplicable, but understanding is a whole process, sometimes even unconscious. Time shows you by example, with the help of events, situations and people, makes you understand about the solution, about the consequence, about the reason. And here, it would seem, you can be grateful for the finally received answer, advice or ready-made solution. But there is one “but”. Among other things, life mirrors, all in the same people and events, you who do not understand, stubborn and categorical.
Is it possible to control and manage this process of cognition? Apparently not – everything happens in time and for some reason. Maybe it is not worth being categorical, but rather open and flexible, so that the path to the answer to each new task becomes shorter.
The search for the “right” solution coupled with the fear of making a mistake/losing time is essentially what leads to us losing time without getting anything. Experience. Oh yeah… a lot has been said about it and it can be improved by any problem, mistake, even inaction. But each new mistake increases the probability of a perfect hit.
Don't be afraid to do! Do, decide, accept, make mistakes. After all, tomorrow you will not repeat everything that you managed to "do" yesterday and today. And, perhaps, tomorrow, having made another decision, having taken a step, in the day after tomorrow you will be happier.