The attraction of opposites?

We are unique. Each person has a unique genome, even if they are like two drops of water alike. In this we are similar, the same, as well as our essence, perhaps. Earlier I touched upon the topic of opposites: whether they attract and repel in reality. And this is what I came to...

Everyone's "pain" is different. Physical pain is nothing! Everyone has a different "early." Getting up at 6 a.m. should be forbidden by the Geneva Convention. Everyone has a different "taste." Dry red with a tart flavor - mmmmm... Everyone has a different "beautiful". Aivazovsky is beautiful! Everyone has a different "cold". +6 in summer is normal! Warm up by moving faster, or dress warmer. ? It's different for everyone!

And what about, say, those opposites whose taste preferences are on opposite sides of the abscissa axis? Can such opposites be attracted? And if they can, can they be together for a long time after the limerence is over? She listens to chanson, I see the beautiful in the classics. She likes to go to bed at 22, when I like to work until 3. She praises her son for cleaning his room when I see it as domestic. She freezes at night, closing windows and hiding from the sun when I can't sleep in the stuffiness. What to do.

And all this is not a difficulty, not a problem, not an obstacle - an opportunity! Maybe you have long been mired in your habits, the stagnation level of your personality has reached the point where different from yours is wrong, wrong, stupid! Maybe she goes to bed early so she can get up early too, so she has plenty of time. Maybe he doesn't wear a third sweatshirt to toughen up while walking. Maybe his favorite strong black coffee with a distinct bitterness has a certain aftertaste charm? Or maybe her favorite white goes so perfectly with your grilled shrimp or red fish?

You try it! After all, the person who is with you will be with you always, and with him his tastes. Which, by the way, can change! Your love for each other, on the other hand, would be better if it stayed forever. It's great when you adjust to truly understand the hobbies/tastes/interests/values/humor of your loved one. From that point on, there will be no more questions of attraction or repulsion. Even distance is not a hindrance! There will be no room for hindrances either during the earthly or after. Love each other always!

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