Real. That's why I love nature, because in any mood it's real. It doesn't seem real, and it doesn't want to seem real. As it is, that's what people should learn from nature. Ah yes... man is a reasonable being, and this reason builds cause-and-effect relations. But everything has a downside and consequences.
Something hurts the sybarite's feelings, causing him (more and more often her) to be squeamish, something alien, elevating himself above the natural, the ordinary.... perhaps in his eyes flawed and tawdry. Oh yes, © "all men are like men, but I am the queen." Eschatology touches everyone and if you are "above" then all this time until now you are obviously changing concepts, living in an illusory world.
Everyone defines the ontology of their life, formulates and adheres to these beliefs. Yes, it may be safe to live in the illusory world of one's norms, rules and revelations. But is it easy? Doesn't it take strength to honor, guard and control all that is "outside the norm". You are just like everyone else! Yes! In essence...you are unique in your thoughts, experiences and mind, which is directly related. However, you remain human with inherent fears.
Don't overdo it! A handshake is just a gesture of attention, a mark on a glass is just water,.and a smile and a kiss on the air is a good mood. What you can see in all this are your worries, which you absolutely do not have to share with anyone else. Try being real! It's beautiful! #MeBeBeautiful.