Паттерн поведения и выбор будущего

Behavior pattern. Here in the mountains the usual things disappear and are erased from our abilities: boredom, anger, resentment, sadness. Over the years of life we have acquired certain patterns of behavior that provoke us to specific decisions... we have decided so for ourselves. We make decisions from conclusions. Conclusions from experience. Experience from the past. Is the past worth analyzing? Should we marginalize ourselves by flipping through the pages of our life history one by one? We cannot change the past! But you are shaping your future now!

By saying something to a person that you have not dared to say for so long, by reminding yourself, by making a pleasant surprise without an occasion and suddenly - you change the future, laying the foundation or simply choosing the color of walls, floor or the number of drawers in the closet. Of course, it's not just words that limit everything - any action or non-action. But only now, only soon, only from the heart - for real.

There is no need to ask "why".... because the choice, the decision, albeit often intuitive, was made then. Then it was possible/right/obvious/necessary/safe (and so on) so and only so! Then "it" shaped now. And now you are different, you know, see, think, appreciate, want, experience - do things differently. Don't question the past - "why?". Answer the future - "because I want it that way now."

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