And just to be blunt and simple. So as not to offend the person-- What? Really? So that he understands me properly. What? Properly? To choose words, God forbid, and tone... No! It's a matter of perception. It's the same issue of perception that I've been referring to for years. And yes, for the hundredth time, it's impossible to offend a person. Whatever you say can be interpreted by the recipient in any way. It's whatever mood he's in. And if it's not his mood, then his goals, objectives, interests and ... "convenience" position at a particular moment in time. And yes, ahead of the question - always! Always!
It's not bad and it's not good at all. It is whatever it is. You think it's bad? Maybe that's what this is about for you. What's your interest in seeing it as bad? ? Non-evaluative (imposed) and that's all there is to it. © "One assessment doesn't make it stop raining."
There is an inherent "obsolescence" in technology. And in our relationships, we build "doubt" into our relationships. Imagine! It would seem that we've known each other for a long time, all sorts of things have happened. But I clearly remember the moments when a person chose the words to tell the truth. A needle is sharp and can bleed if you poke it. No matter what "sauce" you try to present this information, the essence will not change. And giving information in the "dry balance" allows you to avoid these "guesses", which nobody likes. Or do they? Well, it's like to look)))) purpose, mood, etc. yes, yes, we remember!
Disconnect at different frequencies, oscillations and vectors. © "You can't make an ear out of a goat and a rooster." And situations like this can play to your advantage to refuse to toss, to tweak, to synchronize. # Straightforward: "Why did you do that to me? I didn't like the way you did it. I was out of spite!" - A stated problem with known data. This control is solved in an elementary way. And if a common goal, such problems polish the relationship to a diamond cut. The more there are, the more beautiful, stronger and more valuable your diamond is!