Отказ от роли: секрет счастья и гармонии с собой

Loneliness is directly related to the non-acceptance of you as a person. Is it only society that doesn't accept you? Maybe you have a disagreement with it? In my opinion, it is even simpler - your role of "seeming" rather than "being" creates difficulties for you. There are accepted "norms" by society that you may reject. Why? Maybe you just don't know #Through Me the essence of these "orders." To find what #HeSelf is truly enjoyable (to say the least), it is easy to apply in the "public" sphere. It's a unique opportunity to express your individuality. To exaggerate: you don't want to wear clothes - not the norm of social consciousness. Finding your bow that covers your comfort, style and budget needs is yours! An indicator of being "on par" in the eyes of the public.
Not to play a role, but #BeYourself. - is not an easy job. But the dividends from the results of such work can be enormous in both quantitative and qualitative terms. You can start by just smiling! ???

Loneliness. It's an absurd fact, but with dozens upon dozens of people surrounding you in a single minute, event and action... you somehow feel lonely. Perhaps it's not even a question of understanding you as a person, a subject with his own views, attitude to what is happening..... role. Alas, all around you notice roles, not people.

Marina, behind the chilled meat counter, gave you a "kilo hundred" of beef. Sergei drove you to work and Svetlana trimmed the split ends of your hair. A performer who closes your need will never become something more in your life than a resource, or, more precisely, a tool to fulfill the need.

At one time I inwardly resented the "you just have it" position. It didn't seem enough. It seemed terribly unfair to the effort involved. Whatever they were. Today, I see the situation as diametrically opposed... but still based on the fundamental - #BeginYourself. The point is the person, not the circumstance. And if you don't see significance, importance, value, nothing will create it for you. Everything is beautiful beyond your comprehension - a wrapper. You will say solipsism. I dare not disagree... We'll discuss this in a couple of years!

What is understanding you? Why would you want someone to understand you? Isn't it a shifting of responsibility...part of the problems, responsibilities and due? Is that easier? I guess still no... if the bottom line is. A hug! A simple hug, coming from the heart, will replace hundreds of words. You can drown in it, sinking into incredible warmth, comfort and coziness, finding calmness and tenderness, felt with every cell of your body.

Loneliness is directly related to the non-acceptance of you as a person. Is it only society that doesn't accept you? Maybe you have a disagreement with it? In my opinion, it is even simpler - your role of "seeming" rather than "being" creates difficulties for you. There are accepted "norms" by society that you may reject. Why? Maybe you just don't know #Through Me the essence of these "orders." To find what #HeSelf is truly enjoyable (to say the least), it is easy to apply in the "public" sphere. It's a unique opportunity to express your individuality. To exaggerate: you don't want to wear clothes - not the norm of social consciousness. Finding your bow that covers your comfort, style and budget needs is yours! An indicator of being "on par" in the eyes of the public.

Not to play a role, but #BeYourself. - is not an easy job. But the dividends from the results of such work can be enormous in both quantitative and qualitative terms. You can start by just smiling! ???

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