The flip side of perception

And sometimes it's the exact opposite. You see the world as gray, as in this photo... But it only seems so, because the photo has not actually been converted to gray. It's colored! And so it is with life... Once and somewhere I wrote that as you treat life, so it treats you.

At a training that took place at MTS, a topic was once discussed, where a phrase was heard: it is impossible to offend a person, he chooses to be offended or not. Then the trainer asked us (the participants) to offend him by any means. Naturally, we failed... After all, it is an axiom!

But here's a thought in parallel. To hurt... to a large extent, one wishes to hurt oneself, knowing that one has a sore spot. Why then do it and strain yourself in reality, so that in the end, blaming the other person, you can say - how much it hurts me.

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