Thinking. Standard, generic thinking that leads to one outcome - a socially expected response. This is not about a specific case. In general: we get negativity for negativity, and for a smile, we are much more likely to get a smile in return. Our thinking prompts actions, and those, in turn, shape actions. And these, however rude it may sound, are damaging deeds that we commit without thinking. Damage here means scarcity and lack of soul, subtlety of a particular step or action.
This is what I want to learn - to develop in myself a permanent skill to the level of native agreement with a statement, argument, evaluation, claim, and so on. And if there is a destiny, as I have most likely discussed somewhere and sometime before, such a skill will allow you to walk through life in a completely unexpected and unique way - #YourPath.
"You look kind of bad today" - just an evaluative judgment that can be inserted by acceptance! "Yes, I agree with you" - no objection, offense, embarrassment or excuses. All of these will be socially expected reactions. Remember what it is in color, taste and smell?))))) Meet her with a continuation: yesterday climbed in years, and then the sea: sandy beach and waves-waves-waves. Castles Doni steps to the fortress, dozens of kilometers along narrow streets, "singing" fountains and laser show, the road back with dozens of turns, street vendors, different animals and delicious lamb. And after two hours of dreaming to the mountains!
И?! Somehow it seems to me that the addressee of the question himself would not mind to look like you, just to be in your skin.
Any consent to protest and aggression, as well as non-consent to the obvious (exaggerated: water is dry) - creates a new road. And whether to walk on it or not is up to you. Whether you walk it alone or together is up to you!
By the way, the concept of "dry water" exists here too! It's a cool thing, I'd like to point out.