We write the story of our lives

We write the story of our lives every time we perform an action. Refusing or performing at the will of another something that will affect our future life in one way or another... It's like the butterfly effect... We go for one thing, choose another, and get a third. None of the predictions, none of the experiences will work for sure. By postponing, by fearing mistakes we are likely to leave a large and, most importantly, empty gap in our lives.

It would be great to write a plan of your life, which will be happy, long and incredibly colorful... But what happens in the end? The ideal picture does not correspond to your mood, and with a person who is undoubtedly nice you have nothing to talk about? And vice versa ... Up to crazy, when beckons, pulls, attracts, attracts and with the head covers addiction suddenly, when trying to think objectively, turns out to be ordinary and not your taste! How so? And yes... And again, why? Why does everything happen like this?

It is quite possible that this is just a male perception, because women and I are really from different planets, galaxies, universes. And that, I admit, is wildly fascinating. Does it matter? Is there anything or anything other than what's inexplicable?! Do you really love if you know why? Do you really want to hear, see and feel him when you know why?! Or is the object of your thoughts present in your head as an object, without characteristics?! Neither good nor bad... As it is... And all because you are different with this person!

Where does this "other" go, if there really is one?! Why does it go? What happens? And perhaps, if you could think for a moment to formulate an answer... Alas... Shut up! The question wasn't really for you.

Is it possible to try, to not be afraid of mistakes and to admit with boldness and ease that "it seemed" or "I thought it was"! Partly... After all, without doing so, you will never understand or find the truth. But doesn't such behavior conflict with the responsibility for the result? The result that will be the root cause of the problems of the person with whom you were "honest and straight"?!

We are really not responsible for the emotions and feelings of others, nevertheless, it is quite painful to understand and experience the condition of someone close to you, observing suffering and genuine pain.
We don't know "tomorrow" or even realize "now" often enough to forecast and do any analytics. You don't have a specific deadline, sample, or filters to be sure. There's no point in proving, achieving and persuading, nor is there any reason not to. Mutual interest in trying is fraught with you/they concluding that there is insufficient action on one side or the other. Then what's the point of it all? And is it worth taking the difficult step forward if you can't see the way now?

Any conventions are nullified by modern realities. Let there be everything, let everything be "just so." But that's no guarantee. It's not insurance either. That's not what makes you happy. Happiness is that which has no redefinition - love. If there is that bar of "highest love" that would claim to be the "benchmark"? Absolutely not! And all only because this feeling is as dynamic as possible, both in volume, weight, color, shape, form, weight and sound. Agree, to hear "I love you" for the first time after several months, from the person whose touch excites your mind and body, would be wrongly pleasant.

Greater things do not require words, greater things are felt and at a distance. Greater is encapsulated by your brain, when thoughts are not mashed, replaced or weakened. Greater is precisely the constant. Greater has no definition, but it is mandatory and always unique.

I know about what I'm saying. I know about what I've experienced. I know about the fact that your words written on this white piece of paper have a unique emotional content that cannot be faked, cannot be explained... Don't write in a message, but write on paper with your hand so that you can send it to him/her right after, without re-reading it.... Please stay alive and present today, now! #Be Alive - write with your hand, send with a number. Your he and your she will definitely leave this in their heart.

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