It is not so easy to look at the surroundings alone... It does not matter: from above or from below. Everyone needs their own point of support in any form and execution: be it a foundation made of concrete or tungsten, even a pile made of chrome... When a person has defined this support for himself, then everything else becomes conventions, which can be limited, abandoned or replaced if necessary.
For several years now I have been leaning first one way and then the other, in order to finally understand what my support is. And now, it seems to me, I have finally understood.
It's damn nice to hear an opinion about myself from the outside... what I can do, what I know, what I'm capable of. I know! Maybe I'm hiding it, but why talk about it. I want to do all this... to be!