Emotions and manipulation

Over the years, we gain a lot of experience through pain, suffering, passion, fierce love and loss. Unwittingly going back in time to the events that touched us to the depths of our souls, we want to relive that passion, experience wonderful emotions and feel happy.

Alas, it happens and it's scary, or maybe it's fortunate, because as we know, we wouldn't be able to appreciate the good without experiencing the bad. And now, you are 18, when you have learned a lot and it seems that it is extremely difficult to surprise yourself with something. The same way you think at 25, then at 35 and even at 50. The only thing that changes is the object that can evoke an emotion and "hook" you. The older you get, the more difficult it is to be manipulated and the more skeptical you are of flattery.

Many people experience difficult relationships, breakups and family disputes, where children are the strongest means of manipulation. Sometimes to the point of breakdown, to madness and screams, tantrums and tears of despair... Standing on the edge of hopelessness, as it seems to him, a person decides to take a desperate step... But this is a fatal mistake! Any step, if it is really decisive and concerns not only you, should be considered and weighed. Dry calculation and zero emotions.

There's snow all over my eyelashes.
And I can't see your tears behind it.
He's never been bad to you,
Something just didn't work out.

Don't look for blame, don't,
It's all behind us now.
And the one who's with him today,
Wish me luck on my journey.

Don't try, you won't forget him.
No matter how many people I meet,
You'll keep it in your heart,
He's forever a part of your life.

This isn't over, do you believe me?
It may not be easy to be strong sometimes,
To open secret doors,
You have to let go of the past.

© Loginova Valya

It is through emotions that a person can be controlled. Fear is the most powerful leverage. And so, by the time I am my age, I will learn to regulate the supply of different types of "fuel" to my brain and heart. I love the ability to accept everything as fact. An event that is inevitable... Not good or bad, but factual - without a gram of extra paint. It's not worth trying to repaint. Decide rather if the event is in black. Hold on tighter and taste every inch if white. Don't regret the loss or anger the appearance. As a fact... which will not disturb your inner harmony.

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