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We are the ones who are so good and evil, so sensitive and indifferent, so smart and stupid, so stale and tender - different but the same. We are... the ones that not everyone can understand. Those who are hurt, framed and so shamelessly taken advantage of... Yes?!

Your limits, boundaries, rules, norms and other things you invented are the root cause of the described cases of "injustice". When you put sticks in the wheels of someone who tries to understand you by violating your invented boundaries, you end up with misunderstanding... while blaming the other person. After all, it's not the first time you've tried to explain in words. Yes, yes... it's fine to speak, not to keep silent, but to explain to someone blind from birth how the color cornflower looks like... uh, I think it's not an easy task.

It's us, born in the wrong time, in the wrong place,
We, who are always yelling about protest.
From lack of sincere hugs and mom's borscht,
From an overabundance of patting buddies and empty "I told you I'd do it."

It is we who despise system, order, measure.
We are both loyal as dogs and hypocrites at the same time
There are no rules in friendship, only vodka and laughter.
That's probably why we play it so badly.

It's us, driving without looking at the road,
Because the world doesn't need a reason to give us back to God
There's no point in being afraid of fire and snowstorms
For there is nothing scarier than a wolf in sheep's clothing.

They say disappointment is the fault of the enchanted in spite of
We are the ones who are the fools.

© Moriah Bogoyavlensky

Be honest with yourself about what boundaries we're talking about. Now tell yourself why you need them. Did you realize the truth of that decision? Did you? How? Or did someone tell someone else that for some reason?

The attempt to protect oneself with such a boundary is unreliable and has a lot of "side effects". We are already too formulaic in our actions and words (I promised) to borrow and even more so to invent additional templates.

Defense? You want and need to defend yourself when you have a weakness. And what if you don't have one? Permanently... Any blow misses the target... and all because there is no object for the target at all. Think about it and start with yourself!

I also wanted to discuss you...you and him(her). But that's for another post.

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