Flirting: playing with the soul

I won't hide it, but I am pleased to know that there are those who read what I write in my publications. Only my text and photos, even in stories... Some kind of heightened ambition.

And so I was offered to discuss the topic of flirting. Thank you! After all, I really didn’t touch on this issue in my posts.

What is flirting, why and how does it manifest itself? There was no specific question, so I will try to briefly express my vision.

Is flirting necessarily a positive emotion, full of feelings and experiences? I don't think so... For some, it's a kind of collectible excitement. However, there is also one that the author of the flirting himself revels in. In these cases, it seems to me, it is very obvious and distinguishable. After all, if we return to feelings, a person in love is insanely cute and absurd in his presentation of flirting. This cannot but make you smile. 🤪

Still, flirting is a kind of game, which, it seems to me, is less likely to develop into a real emotion than to remain a starting point for the intimacy of two people.

But should flirting be present at the beginning of a relationship? Looking ahead – it should be after 3-5-7-10 years of marriage… That’s definitely it! Flirting has a different role… it’s something that connects. An attempt to attract attention, to seem… People who are truly in love behave intuitively, without masks and embellishments.

Still, apparently, flirting is not the same as falling in love. It is a moment of courtship on the part of a man and an attempt to attract attention on the part of a woman. A kind of game, a kind of wrapper (packaging) of the relationship of two people. And it is this “game” that should be loved in marriage, if not throughout life, then at least for many years. Flirt, and do it elegantly, sharply, with soul and a bit of humor. Your correct flirting gives him/her self-confidence and lifts the mood!

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