A family on the transit system

And yes... let's get back to the letter! Remember that you put it in the drawer of your nightstand five days ago? Well, it was written to you by a complete stranger. Now give him an answer to the words he wrote in his letter. Just remember that this is a complete stranger. From another continent... you don't even know his age, name or gender. This will be a completely objective answer from the outside, without an ounce of empathy or emotion. Dry. To the point.

Isn't this what is of primary importance when solving a problem? Approaching the matter with a clear head and sober emotions. An honest and direct answer that appears immediately to any question or problem. Any problem is solved in the same way - immediately.

Now go back to the moment when you wrote the letter. And turn it over, where all the answers will be written. More often than not, from the outside, the situation appears in a different light. We either feel sorry for ourselves or give ourselves too much to others. Both seem absolutely right and natural to us at a particular moment in time, and some people say that we are doing stupid things. Well, of course... they are not in my place. So now you had a wonderful opportunity to be in their place, giving an assessment of the one who asked the questions in the letter!

If you are not ready to accept the advice written on the back of the sheet of paper, then most likely you have not belonged to yourself for a long time. There is only one solution - help from a specialist or a radical change of scenery! Change your social circle or completely refuse contact with people... You need to find yourself. You need to make yourself whole and invulnerable. After that, you will have an endless amount of new things.

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