It's a damn interesting thing about life. You know, every event with age acquires not only essence, but also form and volume. Even each of the news has its own place, even if they're out of the ordinary sad.... He's still! It's all very, very segregated.
The abundance of news bubbles creates a kind of noise from their bursting, when you suddenly, do not come to the meaning of this or that news. Where is the objectivity that one is so eager to learn... or is it for nothing? © The ice is getting thinner, so I'm real.
Learning to accept life as a fact and not be negative about its manifestations is wisdom we turn to over the years of successes and failures, losses and unexpected gains. The fact of the present moment - there is something incredible about any one situation. Your story is absolutely not a collapse or a finale, just a reality and a fact to work with.
It's quite a comfortable position to learn to think, witch is cruel to stop feeling. And these two facets are on different sides and poles. It is impossible to feel through the mind and understand feelings in the spectrum experienced by their bearer.
To feel or to think, which do you choose? And it's not even about the environment and norms of society. The way I see it... Feeling - being open-minded and not counting on evaluations and opinions. Thinking - being strong, knowing tactics, methods and strategies for being right. Except right for someone else... not yourself day! Is this the power to please others, thereby deflecting danger and pressure from others?
All of these are just choices we make more than a hundred times, driven by one motivator or another. Which one is yours? Or maybe you want to try to be yourself in the absolute sense of the word, when your opinion is not based on a choice but on a feeling!
It is a completely different sense of self in a world of conventions, norms, rules, morals and politics. Perhaps it is an incredible flavor that everyone should try.