Value in communication

And what is my own answer to this question I asked you? I will start my thought from the end. Perhaps it is worth to protect your communication with people who respond positively to such a question, because this plus has two minuses, one of which is consumer attitude. This minus is enough to make you decide to stop any interactions.

Terror, let me try to explain my point. And there you go... you are remembered, thought of, and even miss you. At some point you suddenly hear, "I love you." You notice the steps towards you day by day and everything seems to be fine. But something happens and that person stops getting their fix, loses interest and starts to get bored... now FROM you. Less and less often, thinner and thinner, further and further away, and finally - silence. You are forgotten, once and for all.

At the root of such behavior and attitudes is self-interest - the desire to work only for "return". You are not interesting as a person and that is why you can be forgotten once and for all... even if it is not so soon and not so easy. Nevertheless, when there is value in you as a person, a person, a boyfriend/girlfriend, forgetting you will never work. More and more to compare with you, to make an example of you, to be proud and to take an example from you in something.

I suddenly wanted to remember when and from whom I had asked for, or mentally wanted, "feedback". Hmm... and I can't remember. It's like a boomerang that comes back. It's creepy, but I guess I had enough of myself.

Remember people, each one of them changed your life! Appreciate, the Person, because thanks to him/her you are the way you are now. After all, the "butterfly effect" exists in such things... Think about it!

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