Be in the loop

Each of us lives our own important, bright, significant, hard, happy, eventful, interesting, complex - special life. Has a job with dozens, if not hundreds of details, the significance of which, of course, only you can understand. Household... oh-yes. And here everyone has their own "want" and "must"... we ask so little, but do so much.

Now look at the person next to you! He is genuinely interested in how your difficult day at work went. He really wants to understand the difficulties you faced so that he can share his opinion about the situation he sees with his own eyes. He may even know ways to solve it, steps that may be fewer to get an answer. Maybe he has someone he knows who will share a similar experience.... or maybe you both sit down at a table and visually break the problem down into its details.

Why is the opinion of others more and more often unnecessary advice? Why is the desire to help more often a violation of boundaries? Why is sincerity more often self-interest and profit-seeking? Obviously, your environment mirrors you in many ways. Do not do, or at least reduce those actions that do not come from the heart. No one has abolished the rules of decency, so you need to respond from time to time. It is better, in my opinion, not to accept at all than not to reciprocate.

I want to be in a subject that allows me to feel the experience. I want to be able to speak the same language. I want to share my knowledge and help in the steps (not to do for someone else). I want to see the joy of success and "well, finally, hurrah!" I want to increase numbers and to draw zeros to the right.... x, plus, plus, increase in degree... success and feelings... to each other, to each other!

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