Why do couples break up? Someone is above, someone is below... more often than not, one of the couple makes the final decision and is the authority. Why do adult couples behave differently when questions, disputes, problems arise? The older you are, the simpler and easier it is to make decisions.
No matter what anyone says, but young people depend on, or at least demand "due" from their other half. But the older generation is already self-sufficient. Each of the couple has its own interests, its own resources and desires... - people need each other not for anything, but just for pleasure!
Not "want from" or even "do for", but just be! Just being there because it feels good and feels good. Young people have a lot of unmet expectations, resentment for giving without an answer or with less profit.
Adults... It is quicker and easier to make a decision to put a stop, because they know that there are hundreds of thousands of possibilities and accidents... you may not have time! But here, alas, experience gets in the way.
The transformation of intersexual relations in the future is already clearly shown today in Japan, where people are abandoning people. Fortunately, we are too far away from this.
I feel exactly the opposite the older I get, the harder it is to make decisions!