Complexity in empty space breeds complexity. That's what I've been thinking about with a very simple and quick analysis. Hmmm... Events that happen because of "I want to" and "why not" make for a very strong knot at the start.
All roads and destinies are predetermined, so by naming just such a knot, starting with a strong one, you have a chance to cheat fate. Sell your goal, your dream, your desire to it.
If it's difficult, you have to be, you choose "well, it has to be this way", then it's just two threads, not even the same color. Tomorrow there will be questions, doubts, suspicions and a year or two later there will be no trace left.
The fire of life is not lit the way we do with an ordinary fire. It doesn't require wood, kindling, or wind. From a spark... in a minute... without explanation. And there's a fire tomorrow, a fire tomorrow, a fire a month from now. The one you can stare at forever.
When real - happens as fast as possible.