A simple photograph. You see a blue # sky, in some places black # clouds and even a piece of #sun. The overall picture of the sky with the "smears" that the artist sees it that way is nature.
I started my thought from a very distant place. So... whether it's blue or black... It's not even a question of how you perceive it, although that's ultimately the point. It's about what kind of display your device has, because it renders colors completely differently than mine than any other. And yes... individual perception adds to this. What's the bottom line? Exactly.
Today I got a recommendation to listen to a lecturer broadcasting on the topic of what girls are like, how to love and respect themselves. Well... Even if there is a problem (although one joke goes like this: don't sell problems any relevance or they'll believe they exist), how individualized is it to each person? Absolutely! Oh, and how can a man even explain to a woman how to be a woman? Every situation has its own story involving two people with personal perceptions and views, norms and morals. Is it possible to give a point advice, which will be effective, with a "+" sign? I doubt it. Even an in-depth study of a person does not guarantee success. Or do families break up after decades at the behest of an alien intelligence? These people didn't know each other? Knew worse than a psychologist?
The age of commerce, marketing and consumption... We need to take a deeper look. Yes, yes, advice can be, has an absolute right to exist, but! It is rather something general, universal... like a horoscope. ? But are you ready to buy such a horoscope? And dozens of people do it with pleasure and of their own free will. Although I understand why... Selling obvious things is the trend of the last couple of years. We take the words of an "experienced" lecturer as a mentor, teacher and professional... Whether it concerns business or relationships. Except that the lecturer doesn't know your thoughts, desires, dreams and experienced sufferings... You are a unit of this world that no one will ever know better than you. Understand yourself, be sincere and honest to yourself - here it is free and spot-on advice.
P.S. Had to delete some of the text as it didn't fit within the confines of one post.