I am madly fond of cats... mmmmm... to the point of amazement. Today in Kandalaksha three times a red cat came into my eyes in different parts of the city. These emotions and desire to touch, fur. Kayf!
Touch... perhaps it is the litmus test that can help you understand a person's attitude to you every time. How he/she touches your hair, how he/she strokes your hand, scratches your back and.... treats him/her.
Those tiny commonplace things that happen between you every day are not noticed by you only because you take them “for granted”... though only until you experience otherwise.
Come on... © “the question is different” ???? - why, even after realizing and accepting their own “unwillingness”, do people make a “comeback”? I think it's insecurity, first of all. Again... boredom, otherwise the other would save up strength for a new and new throw, attempt, struggle and desire. It is easier when one manages to land on already proven, albeit “sluggish” ground.
But to this day I accept and allow the place of “it is worse without you than with you”. I repeat myself again and again - you have to understand yourself first. Everything else is a convention, which must be accepted by you, if not by your helpers from a favorable side, then by opportunities for you.